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(Date Posted:03/01/2009 19:03)
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Okay... I have a gripe!  I wanna know why people are so consarned crabby?!?!?!  Don't people know that crabby rubs off on other people???



And why are people so tactless anymore?  Since when did "freedom" include saying things that decent people just don't say...

I realize that in this "no judgment - anything goes" world, a lot of people just wanna fight but damn it all - I DON'T!!!



There... now I feel bettah!



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Re:Why the hell are people so crabby?
(Date Posted:03/01/2009 23:54)

Yeh I dunno... *shrugs*
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RE:Why the hell are people so crabby?
(Date Posted:03/06/2009 20:16)

I want that shirt that says: "I'm just a fvcking ray of sunshine, aren't I?"

Guess my "You call me a B*tch like it's a BAD thing" will have to suffice.


As to the question:
Why are people crabby?  Sheesh, Silk... smiley36 a myriad of things...

especially in this economy, ta boot, I'm guessing?












(Message edited by SparklingRose On 03/06/2009 20:24)
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RE:Why the hell are people so crabby?
(Date Posted:03/08/2009 16:32)

I think the economy is certainly part of the sitch Rose... People are getting sick to damn death of working their butts off day after day, week after week and having nothing left after the bills are paid (IF the bills get paid) but I think it's more than that...

I think people have become really addicted to the highs of drama... the huge rush of feelings they get when they can shock, anger or hurt someone.  Everything is instant gratification and nothing held back. 

I dunno... I get off on thinking someone might like me better after they've spoken with me than they did before they spoke with me... I don't understand why people like to fight...

But then, I am a pacifist so what do I know? 



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RE:Why the hell are people so crabby?
(Date Posted:03/16/2009 04:10)

Reply to Silken_Fire (03/08/2009 5:32:23 PM)

I think the economy is certainly part of the sitch Rose... People are getting sick to damn death of working their butts off day after day, week after week and having nothing left after the bills are paid (IF the bills get paid) but I think it's more than that...

True, and I agree, although I feel it does make it worse then what it already would be, if 'things' weren't so bad as present day economics.

I think people have become really addicted to the highs of drama... the huge rush of feelings they get when they can shock, anger or hurt someone.  Everything is instant gratification and nothing held back. 

I hear ya... people just randomly treating other's - familiar, or unknown to them - as chit... even go so far as calling it funny... I call them fvckwits.. albeit, rarely out loud IRL.



My take....

Firstly... There have forever been those that relish drama, the uglier the better in their book.  Why... I dunno. I know it took me forever to accept that those beings will always not only perpetuate it, but go to great lengths to find it, and don't forget those that only allow THEIR drama... entering pissing contests with those that beg to differ, ta boot...bleh

Secondly... I always used to believe that Drama Queen's and King's were in the minority... an occasional freak of nature... anymore though I see rational, and calm people are in the minority.  Oh... and I used to wholeheartedly believe that Drama was strictly a female affliction... guess that goes back to witnessing a few of my mothers coffee clutches when I was little.  Man, when I began to see, and realize, that there are men that just as afflicted... wow,  what an eye-opener.  My mother always wanted to KNOW what everybody else's drama was about, but didn't jump in... she kept that for our own household...LOL   Dad on the other hand, like to hit-and-run meaning induce it then claim immunity from the fall-out.  Me?  I can't stand the stuff.  Although, I will say that even though I don't go around starting chit with people, if they bring it to me I let 'em know that I never opened my door to their BS, so BS they're gonna get back and the door slammed on to any continuance of it.

Thirdly.... yep... the overall feel of today's present society is so negative, stressed, and defensive it's everyone lashing out against the machine so to speak.  It's depressing, scary, and dim at best.  Other then my own house of estrogen that's more than enough drama for me personally deal with at this time in my life... it's the sense of loss of hope for the better of people, society as a whole, and future.

Fouthly (yes, I like to make up words)... Don't even get me started about the media.  Chicken and egg bullsh*t of which is it:  The media floods, and saturates, the public with every single nuance of negativity, violence, shocking behaviors, and such... driving the final nail in by naming it reality tv - or -  the media is complying to the demand of the public at large for all of this 'drama', claiming thrill seeking, and  becoming ever more so desensitized to the extent of actually living it out as if they've morphed into their idiot boxes through the screen to come back out and make reality TV... an actual reality.  Even the animated chit!  I could not believe when  Family guy, and South Park came out... what's that the hell about... animation to draw kids in... and to have adults believe that watching adult content in animation makes it less serious a message?  They subconsciously claim their fame to equal tv stardom?  IMO... totally fvcked up, and what's worse is the public, more at large then ever, that likes to demonstrate it every single day... and, they call it humorous, and for lack of a better word... hip.  Fuckwits aren't attractive... regardless of how much their willingness to convince themselves, and others, that they are.  When you disagree with their stance, you're either 'out of the loop', old-fashioned, a prude, XXX.... those that scoff at  pacifists, Silken.  Pacifist's, deep thinkers, and consciousness/compassion are OUT... antagonists, ignorance, narcissism and fvckwittedness are IN.

Ok... I can't stand it anymore... Who, or what, the hell is this --------->       


   


It pisses, saddens, and scares me.  For my children that are used to being restricted from the majority of what TV has to offer as a means of entertainment, computer also... there's enough for them to contend with with NORMAL peer pressure, familial issues, and learning how do deal with growing, maturing, and observing and contending with what they know they don't want to be a part of and standing strong - avoiding  getting emotionally beaten for  not  joining the IN crowd and yet be accepted - fit in - and, comfortable with who they are and how they are perceived. 

My eldest is a lot  like me which may be good, and bad...lol. Pacifist yes, but stands strong against what she feels is wrong.  Depending on what it is, quietly...other times... outwardly, and clearly.  Not passive/agressive... assertive. Hates the drama, but once in a great comes off the wall... (for me that's been a personal challenge that's a bit distressing, myself...) My youngest is having more of a muddling with adolescence, though.  I couldn't begin to imagine how much harder it would be if I allowed them a steady diet of the swill media has to offer. Actual reality of living through today's cold society just demonstrating by mimicking what's pumped into them by parents that demonstrate it's effects on top of their allowing them free rein right along side of them... is daunting enough, ty. 

I don't like to fight either, Silk... choosing battles though, is imperative in my book.  Ignorant people are annoying yes... but, there are times g/f that downright demand that you be heard, there's no other way to get that then to ... well... fight back.  Debate is altogether different.... that's another thread.  Or, who knows... perhaps in this one at that, after my having posted my thoughts...lol.

It's 5 am, and I have a battle to attend to with a member of the aforementioned ilk later this morning, and another with State tomorrow afternoon concerning the same issue: A male pedophile in an instructor's position, at my younger daughter's school, that WAS until last week my daughter's science teacher, and his boss a female  principal and her "I reported it.  It's the state's prob now, not mine, or the school's" at that....  is going down with him if I have anything to do with it. Why?  He's still there.

Drama.... got that right.... and I'm goin' reality on 'em. 

What's making me even sicker, literally,  is the suspicion that I am the only parent of 5 female minor victims/classmates... that is going to show up for this fight.  God... single parenting makes you feel alone in a few more ways then one, I tell ya.



(Message edited by SparklingRose On 03/16/2009 04:18)
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