Some members have complained about specific harassment by other members. As Moderator it is my job to put an end to any harassment. We seem to have two problems: One is male members being uncivil to each other. The second is men trying to be overly familiar with a female.
If you have a problem with a member who has been privately messaging please send me a copy of the messages or message thread. I can't read the contents of private messages so unless you send me a copy the message thread I don't really know if we have a problem or if someone just has thin skin.
SECOND: Men, don't send private messages to females on this board. Just DON'T. You may think they are your friends, and they may have even been polite enough to message you back, but don't continue. It almost always leaves them feeling uncomfortable.
DO NOT ON ANY ACCOUNT ask for more details than they publicly disclosed. If they did not say what days they went to the beach, or what section of beach they frequent, or when they intend to go, DO NOT ASK. You come off like a stalker. You are not the CIA, you do not have a need to know.
Announcement: Harrassment! (05/20/2018)
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